Oral sex involves stimulating your partner's genitals with your mouth. You can perform oral stimulation using your tongue, lips, and/or throat. Oral sex can be a form of [foreplay](https://www.masterclass.com/articles/foreplay-guide) before sexual intercourse or as the main event of a sexual experience. There are three subcategories of oral sex: cunnilingus, [fellatio](https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-give-a-blow-job), and analingus.

If you want to engage in oral sex, here are three oral sex acts to try with a partner:

1. __Cunnilingus__: Cunnilingus is an oral sex act perfomred on the vulva or vagina. During cunnilingus, the giving partner typically focuses on stimulating their partner’s clitoris, the most sensitive erogenous zone for vulva owners. 
2. __Fellatio__: Fellatio, more commonly called a blow job, is an oral sex act that involves stimulating your partner’s penis with your mouth. Despite its name, a blow job doesn't actually involve blowing on the penis; rather, you perform a blow job by licking and sucking the penis.
3. __Analingus__: More commonly called a rim job or [rimming](https://www.masterclass.com/articles/rimming-guide), analingus is the act of orally stimulating a partner’s anus. Licking, kissing, and sucking can stimulate the sensitive nerve endings in and around the anus and rectum. With thoughtful safer sex practices and clear communication, rimming can be a pleasurable sexual activity for persons of all genders and sexual orientations.

It is possible to contract STIs (sexually transmitted infections) through oral sex, but the risk is much lower than vaginal and anal sex. Use barrier methods and take precautions to practice safe sex:

- __Communicate with your partner__. Talk to your partner about each other's sexual health history and STI status before engaging in oral sex. 
- __Know the potential risks__. STIs you can transmit through oral sex include Human papillomavirus (HPV), which causes genital warts; Hepatitis A, B, and C; oral herpes and genital herpes, gonorrhea, Chlamydia, Syphilis, and HIV. STIs can be asymptomatic, but possible symptoms include a sore throat and sores in or around the mouth or throat.
- __Use protection__. For maximum STI prevention, use a condom during fellatio and a dental dam during cunnilingus and analingus.
- __Take precaution__. The risk of STI transmission is typically higher for those giving oral sex than those receiving it. To decrease the risk while giving oral sex, avoid brushing your teeth or using dental floss right beforehand, since bleeding gums will increase exposure to any viruses. 
Direct clitoral stimulation can increase pleasure and lead to climax. Start performing cunniligus slowly, and keep these considerations in mind:

1. __Know that every vulva is different__. Be mindful that all vulvas (the external female genitalia including the clitoris, labia, and vaginal opening) are different. This means the smell, look, or taste of your partner's vulva may not be what you expect, and that's completely normal. 
2. __Focus on the clitoris__. Direct and consistent clitoral stimulation is the key to making your partner orgasm. To locate the clitoris, look for where the two inner labia (the vaginal lips) connect at the top and form a small hood. Use your fingers to spread the labia apart. Underneath the hood is the clitoris, which looks like a tiny nub, typically slightly larger than a pea in size. 
3. __Start slow__. A general rule for all sexual activities is to start slow and gradually increase the pace so that your partner has time to build up their level of [arousal](https://www.masterclass.com/articles/sexual-arousal-for-vulva-owners). Begin with slow, sensual licking. Before you target the clitoris, tease your partner and build suspense by lightly circling your tongue around the entire vulva area. 
4. __Pay attention to body language__. One of the best ways to tell if you're pleasing your partner is to tune into their body language. Heavy breathing and tilting their hips closer to your mouth are good signs. If your partner isn't showing signs of pleasure, switch up your technique with a slight variation in tongue pressure, pacing, or location.
5. __Encourage communication__. Even easier than reading your partner's body language is listening to their own words. Let your partner know that you’re open to feedback, and be sure to ask questions mid-performance. Asking your partner about the pressure and speed is a great way to zero in on their pleasure.
6. __Use your fingers or a sex toy__. For enhanced stimulation, insert your fingers or a [sex toy](https://www.masterclass.com/articles/sex-toys-for-vulva-owners) (like a vibrator or [dildo](https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-use-a-dildo)) into your partner's vagina while simultaneously licking their clitoris. To massage your partner's g-spot, gently insert one or more fingers about two-inches inside the vagina and move your fingers towards you as though you're making a "come here" motion. Know that not everyone enjoys fingering during cunnilingus, so it's a good idea to discuss your partner's preferences before you give it a try.
7. __When your partner is approaching orgasm, keep doing what you're doing__. If your partner signals that they're close to climaxing, either verbally or through body language, don’t switch up your technique. Keep targeting the same spot until your partner orgasms or instructs you otherwise. (It may be okay to increase your tongue pressure or speed as your partner is approaching orgasm, but you should typically continue focusing on the same location.)
Experiment with these blow job techniques to find what feels best for your partner.

1. __Use your lips to shield your teeth__. If your teeth touch your partner’s penis, the sensation for them will likely be unpleasant. Wrap your lips over your teeth as a cushion as you go down on your partner.
2. __Use your hands__. For the best blow job, mix in some [hand job work](https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-give-a-hand-job). Place your dominant hand around your partner's shaft, then simultaneously move your hand and mouth up and down the penis. To enhance this motion, twist your wrist back and forth as you move up and down. Make sure to use [lube](https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-use-lube) to prevent painful friction. Once you have the motion down, use your other hand to gently massage your partner's testicles.
3. __Have an ejaculation plan__. If you intend to bring your partner to orgasm, plan ahead so you're both prepared for ejaculation. If you prefer that your partner doesn't ejaculate in your mouth, let them know beforehand. That way, your partner can give you a verbal warning right before they orgasm, and you can switch to hand job-only mode as they climax. If you are okay with your partner climaxing in your mouth, decide whether you would rather spit or swallow. If you do choose to swallow, know that semen is perfectly safe to ingest.
4. __Show enthusiasm__. To give a good blow job, first express to your partner that you want to give them head. Try showing your enthusiasm through a little dirty talk. You can also ask your partner, "Do you like how this feels?" to show that you're invested in their pleasure and open to feedback. As you go down on your partner, look up every so often to make eye contact and indicate that you're enjoying yourself. If you’re not into giving blow jobs, be honest about that with your partner, and never feel pressured to do something you dislike. Only engage in sexual acts that you're comfortable with; if that doesn’t include blow jobs, try exploring alternate ways to please your partner.
5. __Use your tongue to stimulate the penis head__. During most of the blow job, you'll want to apply soft pressure with your tongue against the penis as you move your mouth up and down the shaft. For a pleasurable change of pace, try focusing your tongue attention on the head of the penis and the frenulum, the sensitive band of skin on the underside of the penis head. Grip the lower shaft with your hand, and use the tip of your tongue to lightly lick the top of the penis head in a slow circular motion.
6. __Practice before trying to deep throat__. Deep throating—the act of putting your partner's penis far enough into your mouth that it reaches your throat—is a turn-on for some blow job recipients, but you should only go as deep as is comfortable for you. If you want to attempt deep throating, first train your gag reflex by practicing without a partner. Start by slowly moving a toothbrush toward the back of your throat, and try to hold it there for 10 seconds. When you gag, relax, and overcome your gag reflex by taking deep breaths. Once you make it 10 seconds without gagging, move to a larger object like a dildo. Repeat the same process you’re comfortable moving the dildo back and forth in your mouth.
7. __Stimulate your partner's other erogenous zones__. The key to a great blow job is to make it a full-body experience. While your mouth pleasures the penis, simultaneously stimulate other erogenous zones on your partner's body. Try massaging their balls, licking their inner thighs, stroking their perineum, or engaging in some anal play.
8. __Add a sex toy to the mix__. Try enhancing your blow jobs with a vibrator; simply press it against your cheek or chin so the vibration passes indirectly to your partner’s penis.
If you and your partner decide to explore rimming as a type of anal stimulation, follow this step-by-step guide to safely engage in analingus.

1. __Talk to your partner first__. If you want to try rimming, start by telling your partner why you find it sexy and why it’s something you’d like to incorporate into your sex life. Be prepared for your partner to say no. You need consent before trying any form of sexual activity with a partner, including analingus. Remember that performing or receiving a rim job does not mean that other forms of anal sex are on the table.
2. __Clean up first__. The key to safe rimming is maintaining good hygiene practices. Use the bathroom at least an hour before engaging in anal play. Before receiving a rim job, take a shower with your partner and wash your anus with warm water and mild soap. If you are still worried about cleanliness, consider using an anal douche or enema. Be careful, though—overusing douches or enemas can result in the disruption of healthy gut bacteria. If you are experiencing gas, constipation, or diarrhea, avoid receiving a rim job until your digestive system is back to normal.
3. __Go slow__. When giving a rim job, take your time with various foreplay techniques, allowing your partner to become fully aroused. Light some candles, put on sexy music, and undress slowly. When you’re turned on, your muscles relax, making it easier to enjoy anal stimulation. Try a long [make-out](https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-make-out) session, then slowly kiss your way down your partner’s body.
4. __Find the right position__. There are several positions you and your partner can try for pleasurable analingus. If you are the receiving partner, consider lying on your back with your hips propped up under a pillow and your partner on their knees in front of you. You can also stand with your partner kneeling behind you. Another good rimming position to try is [doggy style](https://www.masterclass.com/articles/doggy-style-sex-position-guide).
5. __Experiment with different techniques__. When performing a rim job, explore different ways to stimulate your partner’s anus. Kiss your partner’s perineum, the area between their genitals and anus. Consider using your warm breath to tease your partner. Then, relax your tongue and start with long, slow licks. Try moving your tongue in a circular motion around your partner’s anus. Be sure to communicate clearly with your partner about what feels good and what doesn’t. Remember that if you or your partner becomes uncomfortable at any time, you can stop rimming immediately.
6. __Use your hands__. While it is possible to experience an anal orgasm in response to anal stimulation alone, stimulating other [erogenous zones](https://www.masterclass.com/articles/erogenous-zones-guide) on your partner’s body can create an even more powerful sensation. During analingus, consider squeezing your partner’s [nipples](https://www.masterclass.com/articles/nipple-play-guide), rubbing their clit, fingering their vagina, or stroking their penis. With the right stimulation, a rim job can add a whole new pleasurable element to you and your partner’s orgasms.
7. __Consider sex toys__. The use of vibrators or BDSM gear like handcuffs can enhance your rim job. Consider purchasing sex furniture like [swings](https://www.masterclass.com/articles/guide-to-sex-swings) or wedge pillows to assist with difficult positions. If you are interested in solo anal play, some anal sex toys are specifically designed to stimulate the nerve endings around your anus by imitating the sensation of analingus.
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Whether you’re new to oral sex or are looking to find new techniques, here are some tips and best practices for performing oral stimulation.

Whether you’re new to oral sex or are looking to find new techniques, here are some tips and best practices for performing oral stimulation.

Complete Guide to Oral Sex: How to Perform Any Type of Oral

Oral sex involves stimulating your partner&#39;s genitals with your mouth. You can perform oral stimulation using your tongue, lips, and/or throat. Oral sex can be a form of <a href='https://www.masterclass.com/articles/foreplay-guide' target='_self' class='mc-text--link' data-mc-segment-trigger='true' data-mc-segment-event-type='Article Page Click' data-event-obj='{"textTag":"p","href":"https://www.masterclass.com/articles/foreplay-guide","linkCopy":"foreplay","category":null}'>foreplay</a> before sexual intercourse or as the main event of a sexual experience. There are three subcategories of oral sex: cunnilingus, <a href='https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-give-a-blow-job' target='_self' class='mc-text--link' data-mc-segment-trigger='true' data-mc-segment-event-type='Article Page Click' data-event-obj='{"textTag":"p","href":"https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-give-a-blow-job","linkCopy":"fellatio","category":null}'>fellatio</a>, and analingus.

What Is Oral Sex?

If you want to engage in oral sex, here are three oral sex acts to try with a partner:<ol class="mc-m-4"><li class="mc-my-4"> 1. Cunnilingus: Cunnilingus is an oral sex act perfomred on the vulva or vagina. During cunnilingus, the giving partner typically focuses on stimulating their partner’s clitoris, the most sensitive erogenous zone for vulva owners. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 2. Fellatio: Fellatio, more commonly called a blow job, is an oral sex act that involves stimulating your partner’s penis with your mouth. Despite its name, a blow job doesn&#39;t actually involve blowing on the penis; rather, you perform a blow job by licking and sucking the penis. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 3. Analingus: More commonly called a rim job or <a href='https://www.masterclass.com/articles/rimming-guide' target='_self' class='mc-text--link' data-mc-segment-trigger='true' data-mc-segment-event-type='Article Page Click' data-event-obj='{"textTag":"p","href":"https://www.masterclass.com/articles/rimming-guide","linkCopy":"rimming","category":null}'>rimming</a>, analingus is the act of orally stimulating a partner’s anus. Licking, kissing, and sucking can stimulate the sensitive nerve endings in and around the anus and rectum. With thoughtful safer sex practices and clear communication, rimming can be a pleasurable sexual activity for persons of all genders and sexual orientations. </li></ol>

3 Types of Oral Sex

It is possible to contract STIs (sexually transmitted infections) through oral sex, but the risk is much lower than vaginal and anal sex. Use barrier methods and take precautions to practice safe sex:<ul class="mc-m-4 list-styled"><li class="">Communicate with your partner. Talk to your partner about each other&#39;s sexual health history and STI status before engaging in oral sex. </li><li class="">Know the potential risks. STIs you can transmit through oral sex include Human papillomavirus (HPV), which causes genital warts; Hepatitis A, B, and C; oral herpes and genital herpes, gonorrhea, Chlamydia, Syphilis, and HIV. STIs can be asymptomatic, but possible symptoms include a sore throat and sores in or around the mouth or throat. </li><li class="">Use protection. For maximum STI prevention, use a condom during fellatio and a dental dam during cunnilingus and analingus. </li><li class="">Take precaution. The risk of STI transmission is typically higher for those giving oral sex than those receiving it. To decrease the risk while giving oral sex, avoid brushing your teeth or using dental floss right beforehand, since bleeding gums will increase exposure to any viruses. </li></ul>

Health Risks of Oral Sex

Direct clitoral stimulation can increase pleasure and lead to climax. Start performing cunniligus slowly, and keep these considerations in mind:<ol class="mc-m-4"><li class="mc-my-4"> 1. Know that every vulva is different. Be mindful that all vulvas (the external female genitalia including the clitoris, labia, and vaginal opening) are different. This means the smell, look, or taste of your partner&#39;s vulva may not be what you expect, and that&#39;s completely normal. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 2. Focus on the clitoris. Direct and consistent clitoral stimulation is the key to making your partner orgasm. To locate the clitoris, look for where the two inner labia (the vaginal lips) connect at the top and form a small hood. Use your fingers to spread the labia apart. Underneath the hood is the clitoris, which looks like a tiny nub, typically slightly larger than a pea in size. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 3. Start slow. A general rule for all sexual activities is to start slow and gradually increase the pace so that your partner has time to build up their level of <a href='https://www.masterclass.com/articles/sexual-arousal-for-vulva-owners' target='_self' class='mc-text--link' data-mc-segment-trigger='true' data-mc-segment-event-type='Article Page Click' data-event-obj='{"textTag":"p","href":"https://www.masterclass.com/articles/sexual-arousal-for-vulva-owners","linkCopy":"arousal","category":null}'>arousal</a>. Begin with slow, sensual licking. Before you target the clitoris, tease your partner and build suspense by lightly circling your tongue around the entire vulva area. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 4. Pay attention to body language. One of the best ways to tell if you&#39;re pleasing your partner is to tune into their body language. Heavy breathing and tilting their hips closer to your mouth are good signs. If your partner isn&#39;t showing signs of pleasure, switch up your technique with a slight variation in tongue pressure, pacing, or location. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 5. Encourage communication. Even easier than reading your partner&#39;s body language is listening to their own words. Let your partner know that you’re open to feedback, and be sure to ask questions mid-performance. Asking your partner about the pressure and speed is a great way to zero in on their pleasure. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 6. Use your fingers or a sex toy. For enhanced stimulation, insert your fingers or a <a href='https://www.masterclass.com/articles/sex-toys-for-vulva-owners' target='_self' class='mc-text--link' data-mc-segment-trigger='true' data-mc-segment-event-type='Article Page Click' data-event-obj='{"textTag":"p","href":"https://www.masterclass.com/articles/sex-toys-for-vulva-owners","linkCopy":"sex toy","category":null}'>sex toy</a> (like a vibrator or <a href='https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-use-a-dildo' target='_self' class='mc-text--link' data-mc-segment-trigger='true' data-mc-segment-event-type='Article Page Click' data-event-obj='{"textTag":"p","href":"https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-use-a-dildo","linkCopy":"dildo","category":null}'>dildo</a>) into your partner&#39;s vagina while simultaneously licking their clitoris. To massage your partner&#39;s g-spot, gently insert one or more fingers about two-inches inside the vagina and move your fingers towards you as though you&#39;re making a &quot;come here&quot; motion. Know that not everyone enjoys fingering during cunnilingus, so it&#39;s a good idea to discuss your partner&#39;s preferences before you give it a try. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 7. When your partner is approaching orgasm, keep doing what you&#39;re doing. If your partner signals that they&#39;re close to climaxing, either verbally or through body language, don’t switch up your technique. Keep targeting the same spot until your partner orgasms or instructs you otherwise. (It may be okay to increase your tongue pressure or speed as your partner is approaching orgasm, but you should typically continue focusing on the same location.) </li></ol>

7 Tips for Performing Cunnilingus

Experiment with these blow job techniques to find what feels best for your partner.<ol class="mc-m-4"><li class="mc-my-4"> 1. Use your lips to shield your teeth. If your teeth touch your partner’s penis, the sensation for them will likely be unpleasant. Wrap your lips over your teeth as a cushion as you go down on your partner. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 2. Use your hands. For the best blow job, mix in some <a href='https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-give-a-hand-job' target='_self' class='mc-text--link' data-mc-segment-trigger='true' data-mc-segment-event-type='Article Page Click' data-event-obj='{"textTag":"p","href":"https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-give-a-hand-job","linkCopy":"hand job work","category":null}'>hand job work</a>. Place your dominant hand around your partner&#39;s shaft, then simultaneously move your hand and mouth up and down the penis. To enhance this motion, twist your wrist back and forth as you move up and down. Make sure to use <a href='https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-use-lube' target='_self' class='mc-text--link' data-mc-segment-trigger='true' data-mc-segment-event-type='Article Page Click' data-event-obj='{"textTag":"p","href":"https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-use-lube","linkCopy":"lube","category":null}'>lube</a> to prevent painful friction. Once you have the motion down, use your other hand to gently massage your partner&#39;s testicles. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 3. Have an ejaculation plan. If you intend to bring your partner to orgasm, plan ahead so you&#39;re both prepared for ejaculation. If you prefer that your partner doesn&#39;t ejaculate in your mouth, let them know beforehand. That way, your partner can give you a verbal warning right before they orgasm, and you can switch to hand job-only mode as they climax. If you are okay with your partner climaxing in your mouth, decide whether you would rather spit or swallow. If you do choose to swallow, know that semen is perfectly safe to ingest. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 4. Show enthusiasm. To give a good blow job, first express to your partner that you want to give them head. Try showing your enthusiasm through a little dirty talk. You can also ask your partner, &quot;Do you like how this feels?&quot; to show that you&#39;re invested in their pleasure and open to feedback. As you go down on your partner, look up every so often to make eye contact and indicate that you&#39;re enjoying yourself. If you’re not into giving blow jobs, be honest about that with your partner, and never feel pressured to do something you dislike. Only engage in sexual acts that you&#39;re comfortable with; if that doesn’t include blow jobs, try exploring alternate ways to please your partner. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 5. Use your tongue to stimulate the penis head. During most of the blow job, you&#39;ll want to apply soft pressure with your tongue against the penis as you move your mouth up and down the shaft. For a pleasurable change of pace, try focusing your tongue attention on the head of the penis and the frenulum, the sensitive band of skin on the underside of the penis head. Grip the lower shaft with your hand, and use the tip of your tongue to lightly lick the top of the penis head in a slow circular motion. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 6. Practice before trying to deep throat. Deep throating—the act of putting your partner&#39;s penis far enough into your mouth that it reaches your throat—is a turn-on for some blow job recipients, but you should only go as deep as is comfortable for you. If you want to attempt deep throating, first train your gag reflex by practicing without a partner. Start by slowly moving a toothbrush toward the back of your throat, and try to hold it there for 10 seconds. When you gag, relax, and overcome your gag reflex by taking deep breaths. Once you make it 10 seconds without gagging, move to a larger object like a dildo. Repeat the same process you’re comfortable moving the dildo back and forth in your mouth. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 7. Stimulate your partner&#39;s other erogenous zones. The key to a great blow job is to make it a full-body experience. While your mouth pleasures the penis, simultaneously stimulate other erogenous zones on your partner&#39;s body. Try massaging their balls, licking their inner thighs, stroking their perineum, or engaging in some anal play. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 8. Add a sex toy to the mix. Try enhancing your blow jobs with a vibrator; simply press it against your cheek or chin so the vibration passes indirectly to your partner’s penis. </li></ol>

8 Blow Job Techniques

If you and your partner decide to explore rimming as a type of anal stimulation, follow this step-by-step guide to safely engage in analingus.<ol class="mc-m-4"><li class="mc-my-4"> 1. Talk to your partner first. If you want to try rimming, start by telling your partner why you find it sexy and why it’s something you’d like to incorporate into your sex life. Be prepared for your partner to say no. You need consent before trying any form of sexual activity with a partner, including analingus. Remember that performing or receiving a rim job does not mean that other forms of anal sex are on the table. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 2. Clean up first. The key to safe rimming is maintaining good hygiene practices. Use the bathroom at least an hour before engaging in anal play. Before receiving a rim job, take a shower with your partner and wash your anus with warm water and mild soap. If you are still worried about cleanliness, consider using an anal douche or enema. Be careful, though—overusing douches or enemas can result in the disruption of healthy gut bacteria. If you are experiencing gas, constipation, or diarrhea, avoid receiving a rim job until your digestive system is back to normal. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 3. Go slow. When giving a rim job, take your time with various foreplay techniques, allowing your partner to become fully aroused. Light some candles, put on sexy music, and undress slowly. When you’re turned on, your muscles relax, making it easier to enjoy anal stimulation. Try a long <a href='https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-make-out' target='_self' class='mc-text--link' data-mc-segment-trigger='true' data-mc-segment-event-type='Article Page Click' data-event-obj='{"textTag":"p","href":"https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-make-out","linkCopy":"make-out","category":null}'>make-out</a> session, then slowly kiss your way down your partner’s body. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 4. Find the right position. There are several positions you and your partner can try for pleasurable analingus. If you are the receiving partner, consider lying on your back with your hips propped up under a pillow and your partner on their knees in front of you. You can also stand with your partner kneeling behind you. Another good rimming position to try is <a href='https://www.masterclass.com/articles/doggy-style-sex-position-guide' target='_self' class='mc-text--link' data-mc-segment-trigger='true' data-mc-segment-event-type='Article Page Click' data-event-obj='{"textTag":"p","href":"https://www.masterclass.com/articles/doggy-style-sex-position-guide","linkCopy":"doggy style","category":null}'>doggy style</a>. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 5. Experiment with different techniques. When performing a rim job, explore different ways to stimulate your partner’s anus. Kiss your partner’s perineum, the area between their genitals and anus. Consider using your warm breath to tease your partner. Then, relax your tongue and start with long, slow licks. Try moving your tongue in a circular motion around your partner’s anus. Be sure to communicate clearly with your partner about what feels good and what doesn’t. Remember that if you or your partner becomes uncomfortable at any time, you can stop rimming immediately. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 6. Use your hands. While it is possible to experience an anal orgasm in response to anal stimulation alone, stimulating other <a href='https://www.masterclass.com/articles/erogenous-zones-guide' target='_self' class='mc-text--link' data-mc-segment-trigger='true' data-mc-segment-event-type='Article Page Click' data-event-obj='{"textTag":"p","href":"https://www.masterclass.com/articles/erogenous-zones-guide","linkCopy":"erogenous zones","category":null}'>erogenous zones</a> on your partner’s body can create an even more powerful sensation. During analingus, consider squeezing your partner’s <a href='https://www.masterclass.com/articles/nipple-play-guide' target='_self' class='mc-text--link' data-mc-segment-trigger='true' data-mc-segment-event-type='Article Page Click' data-event-obj='{"textTag":"p","href":"https://www.masterclass.com/articles/nipple-play-guide","linkCopy":"nipples","category":null}'>nipples</a>, rubbing their clit, fingering their vagina, or stroking their penis. With the right stimulation, a rim job can add a whole new pleasurable element to you and your partner’s orgasms. </li><li class="mc-my-4"> 7. Consider sex toys. The use of vibrators or BDSM gear like handcuffs can enhance your rim job. Consider purchasing sex furniture like <a href='https://www.masterclass.com/articles/guide-to-sex-swings' target='_self' class='mc-text--link' data-mc-segment-trigger='true' data-mc-segment-event-type='Article Page Click' data-event-obj='{"textTag":"p","href":"https://www.masterclass.com/articles/guide-to-sex-swings","linkCopy":"swings","category":null}'>swings</a> or wedge pillows to assist with difficult positions. If you are interested in solo anal play, some anal sex toys are specifically designed to stimulate the nerve endings around your anus by imitating the sensation of analingus. </li></ol>

How to Give Analingus 

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Whether you’re new to oral sex or are looking to find new techniques, here are some tips and best practices for performing oral stimulation.

Whether you’re new to oral sex or are looking to find new techniques, here are some tips and best practices for performing oral stimulation.
