Voyeur Fetish Explained: How to Practice Voyeurism Responsibly - 2021

Voyeurism is the act of receiving sexual gratification from watching or listening to others who are naked, undressing, or engaging in sexual activity. With all participants’ consent, voyeurism is an acceptable sexual fetish, but without consent it can be a sex offense. For example, if your partner agrees to let you watch them masturbate because it turns you on, that's a consensual form of voyeurism. Voyeurism is inappropriate when the voyeur observes unsuspecting people without consent in a private area. This includes watching someone in a place with a reasonable expectation of privacy, such as a person’s home or a public dressing room or locker room. Nonconsensual voyeurism may involve observing a person engaging in sexual acts without that person’s knowledge or capturing photographs or video with hidden cameras. If you and your partner consensually agree upon voyeuristic behavior beforehand, you can responsibly bring voyeurism into your sex life. Consider the following ways to act on your sexual desires safely and healthily: 1. __Watch your partner masturbate__. Ask your partner to masturbate while you hide somewhere nearby—like in a closet—and watch through an opening in the door. Make use of your status as an observer and notice how your partner's body reacts and what gives them pleasure. Since your partner knows you're watching, you can encourage them to do certain things that turn you on. 2. __Role play__. Think about a role play situation where you get to play a voyeur watching your partner in an erotic situation, like watching your partner shower. 3. __Watch voyeurism pornography__. Voyeurism is a popular genre of pornography. When watching voyeurism porn, ensure the video features two consenting adults and not a real hidden camera voyeur video. 4. __Watch your partner have sex with someone else__. If you're in an open relationship, you may want to consider asking your partner if they'd be interested in letting you watch them engage sexually with another person. Set clear boundaries beforehand so that you and your partner are both comfortable with the arrangement. Craving a little more intimacy? Grab a [MasterClass Annual Membership](https://www.masterclass.com) and learn more about <a href='https://masterclass.com/articles/robin-robertss-tips-for-effective-communication' target='_blank' class='mc-text--link' data-mc-segment-trigger='true' data-mc-segment-event-type='Article Page Click' data-event-obj='{"textTag":"p","href":"https://masterclass.com/articles/robin-robertss-tips-for-effective-communication","linkCopy":"communicating","category":"automated-link"}' automatic='true'>communicating openly with your partners, experimenting in the bedroom, and being your own best sexual advocate with a little help from Emily Morse (host of the wildly popular podcast *Sex With Emily*). For some, watching sex can be as arousing as direct participation. The act of receiving sexual satisfaction from watching others in sexual situations is called voyeurism, and practicing it consensually can bring variety to your sex life.